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Bucks Party Tips

(Last Updated On: 11/05/2018)

Most people think that with a bucks party you simply organise a night out and you are good to go. For the most part you are correct. However, the majority of times you are probably just hanging out with your mates. You all know each other so you will have a hassle free night because as stated… you all know each other. At a buck’s party this is not the case, as not everyone at the bucks will be your age or direct friend. If you are the one doing the organising then you will also deal with the groom’s family (could be a bit younger or much older), colleagues of the groom and people who you didn’t even know existed. For the most part people know what to expect and have a rough idea of the do’s and don’ts. Check out our bucks party tips so you will have a smooth and awesome night that you will remember for years to come.

Bucks Party Tips

Do Not Have It The Day Before The Wedding

When you watch TV or a movie for some bizarre reason they always have bucks parties the day before the wedding. This is done for comedic effect and to set up a story line (for example the Hang Over movie series). While there may be some traditional element to it, the simple fact is that no one in their right mind is going to party hardcore the night before their wedding unless they are idiots.

Not only will you be tired and hung over for your wedding, you will also be having a full activity the next day and you need to be on full focus. Generally speaking most people have it around 1 month before the wedding date. This way everyone will have a good time and have a chance to recover.

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People Pay For The Buck

Traditionally people pay for the buck, as it is his wedding celebration. So if you have the list from the buck of guests you should always factor that in and make that clear. On 2 occasions I have helped with bucks parties and always factored in the buck. The simplest way to do this is to get the final guest count. Once you have that number and know the cost of activities assume the buck is a write off. Using my amazing Bucks-o-lator here is the basic formula (remember to include yourself as a guest):

(Guests + BUCK) = Buck Party

(Bucks Party * Cost) / (Guests) = Cost Per Guest

PLEASE NOTE: Make sure you add yourself as a guest. I know its obvious but I have seen the organiser forget to add themselves every now and then – #Maths #Sexy

While it may seem simple this is the basic formula to work out a budget with everyone so it is transparent with everyone. This will have less dramas occur down the line.

On a side note, some guests may (not always) cancel beforehand even if they confirm. If they have already paid and it results in a cancellation fee for what you are organising, you need to have a chat with them. Most will understand. If they have not paid, be honest if it can stuff up final numbers or cost for the rest of the group. For example if a bar, restaurant or activity needs fixed number that can affect the final price. At the end of it all it is the best man / organiser to manage and not the groom. This is why I have such an authoritarian style early on (not harsh just firm).

Make People Aware Of The Night

You are not just dealing with the buck and his friends but potentially his work colleagues and family. They are potentially people you have not met and have a different perspectives on line. make it clear what the night is to be about. Send them a detailed itinerary of what is to unfold (with specific instruction to not inform the buck) this gives people time to say if they will not attend and know what to expect. For example if you went to a strip club then at least everyone knows and people can decline or not attend certain aspects of the bucks party.

Don’t Push People If They Don’t Want To

It does not matter if it is the buck or a guest, you do not push people into something they are not comfortable with. Do not get me wrong I am all for a good time but if someone is not comfortable with something then do not push them to participate. I once went to a bucks party where the brides father was not a drinker and that’s his choice and that’s fine. He met us in a bar and we had some drinks (his was non-alcoholic) but we respected it. You do not want to push people to be put in uncomfortable situations.

Do Not EVER Compromise The Bucks

If there is one thing I hope to have taught you with these bucks party tips the next sentence is very important. While this is to be a fun night out with the boys remember that this is about the buck. Sure go out and have fun but do not go and mess up the buck intentionally that he is embarrassed. This links back to “the night is about the buck”. Do not put him in any compromising situations, embarrassing photos or make him to be a fool. It is a night to go out and have fun but not make him feel bad or embarrassed. While most are respectful of this it has happened enough that I have to make a point of this.

The Final Word

While these are only be a few bucks party tips, I hope they will be beneficial. In simple terms the night is about the groom / buck. Make it about him and keep in in the forethought of your planning. If it all goes well then you will all have an amazing night to remember and cause no dramas.

If you need a hand organising the bucks party or need some suggestions do not hesitate to contact us.

What are your thought’s of these bucks party tips? Do you have another tips that could help? Join the discussion and let us know if the comments below 🙂

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